Along the way of growing and learning, we get wiser. Wiser at knowing who to trust, what to believe, which path to take, and ultimately who are we and who we want to become.
To protect your energy from toxic relationships, to set boundaries and not to settle less than what we worth.
To focus on what you want in life, what direction are you heading, what the kind of people you want to bring into your life.
Define a good relationship-after every single interaction- you feel better about yourself, more confident about your future, you want to become a better person. You get energy and inspiration from the person, you feel so energized that you could concur anything! A bad relationship? I don’t even want to talk about that! Draining, depressive, manipulative and disrespectful.
I believe in authenticity and sincerity in social interactions, but I am learning to be more selective in investing my time and energy with. Instead of self-protection and being over defensive, try to be wiser, more mature and sophisticated to make right decisions. And it is totally fine to make bad decisions, just learn from failure, recover quickly and be wiser next time. Practice is always the best teacher. http://t.cn/RU1yWf5