沟通时要有平常心，而不是带着贪嗔和好恶的分别，否则就不能客观地看待问题，就事论事，也没资格去说别人。因为你所说的话会带有个人偏见，不能让对方信服。
In communication, we should uphold a mindset of equanimity, free from greed, aversion, and personal biases. This enables us to assess issues objectively, address matters as they are, and speak from a place of genuine credibility rather than personal prejudice.