很多悲剧的发生都是因性格缺陷所致，性格缺陷有时会导致钻牛角尖，以至于陷己于无可自拔的境地。其实牛角尖的反方向就是海阔天空的出口，碰到难题，如果我们能转过头去，换个方式、换个思维，或许结局就不一样了。苦海的岸也许就在回头的身后，可惜，很多人只一味的往前看，于是深陷苦海，终致没顶。 ​​​
We should always maintain a positive outlook and amagnanimous attitude towards life. Having a good mood everyday will make lifeseem less heavy. You will feel less pressure, and more power; less frustrationand more positivity. Be good to yourself and to others; learn how to treatyourself well. Do not let tears fall for those who don't care about you. Learnhow to appreciate others, to be thankful for and tolerant of the friends aroundyou.Keep your heart youthful and your outlook simple!