结婚，或者浪漫关系里的其他形式的 commitment，能让我感动到的唯一的点，永远都是那种对 companionship 和 deep connection 的向往，对一个人近乎盲目的喜爱，和那种几乎没有逻辑的信心 —— 我知道热情会幻灭，未来充满不确定，但我选择彼此，我相信我们。

“I married him against all evidence. I married him believing that marriage doesn't work, that love dies, that passion fades, and in so doing, I became the kind of romantic only a cynic is truly capable of being.”