朋友，钱只能帮助你稀释和免除痛苦，只有爱和良好的人际关系才能带来幸福。

Esther Perel一直反复说的，关系的质量决定了你人生的质量。而你人际关系的质量，本质上反应了你的品格、你为他人设身处地着想的能力、以及你的慷慨付出程度。

The quality of your life ultimately depends on the quality of your relationships… which are basically a reflection of your sense of decency, your ability to think of others, your generosity.